Dementia End-of-Life Care

Identifying your preferences before dementia takes hold

Compassion & Choices is working to transform how people die with dementia to ensure people are aware, empowered and supported in getting the care they want – or do not want – should dementia take hold.

Why does Compassion & Choices focus on dying with dementia?

Dementia is rarely treated as the terminal disease it is. As a result, people with dementia are especially susceptible to aggressive, potentially burdensome and unwanted treatments that show little benefit.1 For example, there is no evidence that artificial feeding offers any benefit for a person with advanced dementia2, however there is much evidence of the risk and burden.3 And yet, it has been estimated that approximately 30% of all PEG tubes (a surgically placed feeding tube that provides nutrition directly to the stomach) are placed in people with dementia.4

Many visit the hospital in their final months, which can be especially traumatic for people with dementia. One study showed 57% of nursing home residents with advanced dementia had at least one emergency department visit in their last month of life.5  Yet when asked what they would want if they had advanced dementia, most adults said they would prefer to be kept comfortable and avoid suffering, as opposed to receiving treatments that prolong life.6

Compassion & Choices seeks to ensure people are planning for the kind of death they want if living with dementia. Our goal is to empower people to take action, consider what matters most to them and discuss those wishes.

Every adult with decision-making capacity has the option to refuse or stop unwanted treatments. However, standard advance directives do not address the complex and unique issues that arise with advanced dementia…and more importantly, how one dies when living with dementia.  As such, Compassion & Choices is committed to normalizing advance care planning for people with dementia so they can get the care they want – and avoid the care they do not want.

Although dementia is not a normal part of aging, it is unfortunately far too common. Consider:

  • Nearly 50% of older adults die with Alzheimer’s disease or another form of dementia.7
  • Dementia is the seventh leading cause of death in the United States.
  • Deaths from Alzheimer’s have more than doubled between 2000 and 2019, while those from heart disease — the leading cause of death — have decreased.8
  • Nearly 7 million Americans over the age of 65 are currently living with Alzheimer’s disease or another form of dementia.9
  • It is estimated at least 13.8 million older adults will have dementia by 2060.10

Can Dementia Be Cured?

There is no cure for dementia. However, research has shown that there are ways to reduce the risk, delay the onset or even slow the progression. Focusing on a healthy diet, staying active, managing stress and socializing can go a long way to keeping the brain healthy. 

Check out US Against Alzheimer’s Brain Guide for more brain health tips.

Why Are So Many People Living (and Dying) with Dementia?

Overall, an aging population, combined with the high numbers of Americans living with chronic illnesses such as diabetes, heart disease, high blood pressure (hypertension) and lung disease are contributing to higher numbers of people living with dementia. Additional factors that increase the risk of dementia include depression, smoking, excessive alcohol use, hearing loss and a lack of physical activity.11

In addition, growing research shows the risk of dementia is much higher for Black and Hispanic Americans12 as well as those who have had greater exposure to adversity and discrimination.13

To learn more about Alzheimer’s disease and other forms of dementia, visit the National Institute on Aging.

How Long Do People Typically Live with Dementia?

People typically live with dementia for an average of 8-10 years. Life expectancy can vary based on the type of dementia, age at diagnosis and other health conditions.

What Does it Mean to Have Advanced Dementia?

Late or end-stage dementia is often referred to as “advanced dementia.” This means the disease has progressed to irreversible loss of cognitive and physical function.

During this final phase of life, an individual will require 24-hour care due to the following changes:

  • Unable to clearly communicate wants and needs (may not speak at all or the few words said may not make sense)
  • Sleeping more than awake
  • Loss of muscle coordination (swallowing challenges, may not be able to walk, sit or stand without assistance)
  • Unable to recognize familiar faces or surroundings
  • Withdrawal from engaging with loved ones, previously enjoyed activities

Are there Legal Options to Avoid Living With Dementia?

Every competent adult has the right to refuse and stop unwanted medical treatment, even if that decision leads to death. Refusing or stopping treatment can include refusing surgery and medications or stopping treatments such as dialysis, blood transfusions, and chemotherapy. If an individual has lost the ability to make their own decisions, similar decisions can be made by a surrogate decision maker (also known as a proxy or Durable Power of Attorney for Health Care).

Although dementia is not a normal part of aging, it is unfortunately far too common. Consider:

Completing a dementia advance directive is an important first step to ensuring wishes are honored.


Voluntarily stopping eating and drinking (VSED) is a legal option when an individual has the capacity to make their own healthcare decisions. VSED (also referred to as end-of-life fasting) is a self-initiated decision to refuse all food and fluid to advance a natural death. Learn more about VSED here.

Additional Resources

The Dementia Decoder empowers people to prepare for medical appointments and create a customized list of helpful questions.

Dementia Stories & Videos

Dementia Survey Results

What we can learn from Tony Bennett’s Journey

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Compassion & Choices NORC Omnibus Survey, 2018

Davis MA, Chang C, Simonton S, Bynum JPW. Trends in US Medicare Decedents’ Diagnosis of Dementia From 2004 to 2017. JAMA Health Forum. 2022;3(4):e220346. doi:10.1001/jamahealthforum.2022.0346

2023 Alzheimer’s Disease Facts and Figures, Alzheimer’s Association. Accessed at


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11 Alzheimer’s Disease and Healthy Aging, Division of Population HealthNational Center for Chronic Disease Prevention and Health Promotion, Accessed at


13 Alzheimer’s Disease and Health Aging, Division of Population HealthNational Center for Chronic Disease Prevention and Health Promotion, Accessed at

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