LGBTQ+ Communities

LGBTQ+ people are proud and prepared! We can face additional challenges at the end of life, so it’s critical to include chosen family members in the decision-making process and lay out our healthcare wishes for each other.

Community Spotlight

Compassion & Choices participated in Atlanta Black Pride and other events to commemorate LGBTQ+ Pride and LGBTQ+ History Month in October.

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Stories are an essential part of our work to educate and empower all people to understand their options, plan ahead and take action early to chart their end-of-life journey. 

We have the tools you need to begin end-of-life planning. Get started today.

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Stories

Kelly Rice standing in front of a fence and flowers

Kelly Rice (they/them)

Kelly Rice is a public health professional based in Illinois who works with older populations navigating the healthcare system.
"My work is about how we ensure that people living with dementia are still able to embrace the pieces of life that bring them joy through end-of-life planning."

Thomas Reed Jackson

Thomas Reed Jackson left a legacy of compassion and tenacity to the end-of-life care and options movement.
“We have to change the paradigm. We have to change our way of thinking, and we have to adopt the idea of a legacy.”
Thomas Reed Jackson seated in front of a parked train in the background.

PJ Schimmel

PJ Schimmel’s wife wanted the option of medical aid in dying in Connecticut to end her suffering from ovarian cancer.
"Please pass this bill so that dying people and their loved ones can have peace of mind. So they don’t have to be in agony. So they can pick their time and place to say goodbye."

Deb Robertson

Deb Robertson is a former social worker living with terminal cancer. She is advocating for the option of medical aid in dying in Illinois.
“After I was diagnosed with cancer, I started to think about what I wanted to do with my life. I’ve advocated for others for so many years. Now, with aid in dying, I’m advocating for something that affects me.”
Deb Robertson with her wife Kate in 2022

Stephen May

Stephen May passed away without the option of medical aid in dying due to a bureaucratic system to access the End of Life Option Act.
“If SB 380 had been in place, Stephen would have easily been able to receive the medication in time. He would not have had to spend his final days suffering as he did.”

Tom La Follette

Tom La Follette (1963 - 2020) urged the Delaware Legislature to authorize medical aid in dying while facing terminal cancer.
“I ask that lawmakers have mercy for their terminally ill constituents. I think it’s shameful for legislators to not support medical aid in dying as an option. My life is not theirs and they can’t understand what I’m going through.”

Carrie Framsted

Carrie Framsted's wife, Monica Schliep, suffered a painful death after struggling with pancreatic cancer.
“Her last two weeks were excruciating. I wish Monica could have been afforded the opportunity to decide when enough was enough.”

Florrie Burke

Florrie Burke continues to advocate for medical aid in dying in memory of her spouse, pioneering filmmaker and activist Barbara Hammer.
"I’m in my mid-70s and in relatively good health, but after watching Barbara die with needless suffering, the last thing I want to do when I die — as we all will do one day — is repeat her end-of-life experience."

John Forsgren

John’s husband, Dan Winter, had early-onset Alzheimer’s disease. Dan attained control in his end-of-life journey and died peacefully.
“I know how lucky I am that Dan has chosen to deal with this diagnosis publicly. I’ve seen the struggle that people go through when they are forced by their partners or family members to keep secret the diagnosis of dementia—creating tension amidst greater chaos.”

Latest News

Bishop Kevin E. Taylor recognized in Riverside, California
November 12, 2024

Bishop Kevin E. Taylor plays an essential role in our African American and LGBTQ+ Leadership Councils, offering a vital perspective as a faith leader based in Newark, New Jersey, and an advocate for advancing end-of-life care tailored to the needs of his communities. Last October, Taylor reached a significant milestone when he was officially recognized…

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Pride 2024: What Pride and End-of-Life Options Mean to Us
June 1, 2024

Each year, Compassion & Choices commemorates Pride Month to recognize and celebrate the LGBTQ+ community. The end-of-life options movement is deeply rooted in the same core principles and values as the LGBTQ+ rights movement: dignity, bodily autonomy and the right to make personal healthcare decisions.

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Transgender Awareness Week & Creating Trans Spaces: December 13, 2023
April 12, 2024

Transgender Awareness Week is held annually as a time of reflection that leads up to Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR), also known as Trans Day of Resilience. It is a moment where the LGBTQ+ community looks back on the year, fully acknowledging the injustices that the trans, nonbinary, and gender expansive community face. Compassion &…

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Reflections on LGBTQ+ Pride and the End-of-Life Options Movement
June 2, 2023

Every year, Compassion & Choices celebrates Pride Month in recognition and celebration of the LGBTQ+ community. The end-of-life options movement was born out of the same principles and values as the LGBTQ+ rights movement, including bodily autonomy and person-directed healthcare. From Oregon’s Death with Dignity Act to allowing same-sex partners to act as healthcare proxies…

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Black History Month Staff Spotlight: Osha Towers
February 10, 2023

This Black History Month, Compassion & Choices is celebrating Black leaders within our organization who bring their unique and invaluable perspectives to the end-of-life options movement. Our staff and supporters make progress possible. Compassion & Choices’ Community Engagement team works within communities to advance our mission of improving care and expanding options at the end…

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